I can clearly see your/you're nuts.
(UB40 - Red Red Wine)

The one thing I love most about growing up is that less people depend on you to fix their problems. People no longer look for a solution but rather someone who will sympathize with them. When I was younger I was always looking for a soulmate. Which in retrospect was probably synonymous with "therapist". Someone who would fix me or at the very least, make me forget about my flaws. After you turn 30, you're less concerned about fixing but rather learning to cope better. Here's a little word of advice -- not everything can be fixed and not everyone cares to be your savior.